Aug 21 2010
The Best Man Wedding Planner: Your Several Other Tasks
The Best Man is responsible for a variety of tasks for the wedding, not just his best man wedding speech. Because they can vary, be sure to talk to the Groom about what you should do. The Best Man probably has most of his miscellaneous duties before the actual wedding. One of the most important is being a source or moral support for the groom.
Your most important job, however, is to just provide a good source of moral support for the Groom. Even though weddings are supposed to be blissful and relaxed, they can be overwhelming. So sometimes you need to be a Best Friend before the Best Man. You want to provide a good system of reinforcement for your Groom and help make his special day even better. The wedding planning process will also give you a good opportunity to find material for your best man speech.
One of the pre-wedding responsibilities you may have is picking a date for the actual wedding. Weddings are generally on weekends, as they are easier for people with jobs, but a weekday wedding isnt out of the question. Make sure your plans are made with sufficient time for out-of-state relatives to get plane tickets and time off work.
If the Bride and Groom have already decided on a location for the wedding, make sure you have a physical address available for people who arent local. If the Bride and Groom have a someone special in mind that they want to perform the service, be sure to talk to him in advance to see when he is available, or look around for a clergyman that is available on the wedding date.
If you are in charge of getting the Groom to the wedding location, make sure you are there at least an hour before the designated time. This will eliminate any last minute panic and careless mistakes. You definitely do not want the Groom to be late to his own wedding. You know his wife would never let him live that down. So protect your Groom and get him there on time! And dont forget to practice for your big best man wedding speeches.
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